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Advocacy tips for parents

The word 'advocate' means to speak on the behalf of another. As a parent you are the first and best person to speak on behalf of your child. You know your child better than anyone. Professionals will come and go from their lives, but you will be there for the long haul.

  1. Your role as an advocate
    Remember, the role of an advocate is not impartial. As an advocate your loyalties must be with your child. If you do not advocate for your child who will?
  2. Be assertive
    Your child has a legal right to receive an appropriate education and the related services that they are eligible to receive.
  3. If you do not understand something, ask questions
    You have the right to receive information in a way in which you can understand. If you don't understand something that someone writes or says to you, ask for clarification. Keep asking questions until you understand exactly what is being said about your child.
  4. Share information
    The IEP Team cannot work effectively as a team unless they all have the same information. If you have information that is be relevant to your child's education, i.e. doctor reports, therapy reports, tutor recommendations, etc., share it with the team.
  5. Be prepared
    Before you go to the IEP meeting, make a list of things you want to share or questions you want answered. Prioritize your concerns. Bring any additional information you feel may assist the team as they map out your child's educational program. Use PHP's IEP Preparation Tool to help you with organizing this task.
  6. Keep records
    Keep all of your child's records together. Begin a filing system, binder, folder, box, etc. whatever works for you, but remember to keep all records. You never know when a piece of information may come in handy.
  7. Get help
    Don't attend your child's IEP meeting alone, if possible. Two pair of ears are always better than one. It is always helpful to look over at a familiar face. If you need legal assistance contact the Parent Training and Information Center at EPU. More advocacy resources.
  8. Remember – This is your child's future
    Keep in mind that the decisions you make today, regarding your child's placement and services, will direct the path that your child travels in the future. Always keep the future in mind.
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-- Compiled and written by Vicki Benson

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